God can handle your questions,
so ask!
God can handle your questions, so ask!
“You Asked For It” takes your questions and answers them with biblical principles & practical tips. Join Pastor Scott Thomas as he hits the tough topics of today.
Bible & theology
What are the 10 Commandments mainly about?
Exodus 20:2-17 | Matthew 22:36-40
The Ten Commandments are more than a set of don’t’s; they create a moral mentality that build healthy relationships.
How do you decide which version of the Bible to quote scripture from?
KJV | ESV | NLT | NKJV
More important than quoting scripture is understanding God’s message for us in His word. Comparing versions can bring clarity and accuracy when understanding the context.
What is “blasphemy” of the Holy Spirit?
Matthew 12:31-32
Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is a refusal to repent of a sin one is aware of, effectively preventing God from forgiving what is not repented.
What understanding should we come to when reading the Old Testament?
Genesis – Malachi
Studying Old Testament books like Leviticus reveal God’s nature, provide pictures that are fulfilled by Jesus, and depict the believer’s walk.
Can I lose my salvation?
Ephesians 2:8 | Matthew 7:16
You can’t accidentally lose your salvation. However, authentic salvation involves enduring faith and the presence of spiritual “fruit.”
Can a person get baptized twice?
Acts 16:14-15
Baptism is an outward testimony of the internal change Christ made in your life. Getting baptized twice doesn’t make you more or less saved.
Does FLC believe in divine healing?
Daniel 3:17-18
Yes, Free Life Chapel believes in divine healing, however even if He doesn’t bring healing, He’s a good God with a good plan.
Does FLC believe in the evidence of speaking in tongues?
1 Corinthians 14:18-19
FLC believes in speaking in tongues, however they are not impressed with people who can. All are equal to the ears of God, every prayer accounted for.
Is a CROSS considered a “Graven Image"?
Galatians 2:20
The cross is a symbol that reminds us of what Jesus did, and should be worn as a witness of a Christ-like lifestyle rather than decoration.
Are the NLT and NIV translations good Bibles to study with?
2 Timothy 2:15
The most important thing is to study the Bible and find a version you understand. Every translation has pros and cons because of how they are translated.
I Was Raised And Baptized Catholic. If I Get Baptized At FLC, Am I Betraying The Church, God, Or The Virgin Mary?
John 14:6-7
Repentance and surrendering to Jesus is the only way to heaven, not a specific church or denomination.
Pastor Scott References That God Has A Sense Of Humor — Where Can I Find That In Scripture?
Psalm 16:11
God’s joy is inferred from humanity being made in His image. In addition, the scriptures say that God’s presence brings pleasure and comfort.
When God said, "Let us make man in our image," who was He talking to?
Genesis 1:26 | Deuteronomy 6:4
When God said “Let us make man in our image,” He was speaking to the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—the triune Godhead.
Are there books missing from the Bible?
2 Timothy 3:16
While other books are mentioned, there’s no text missing from the Bible. Because the Bible is God-breathed, every book in the canon has been scrutinized for accuracy.
Heaven, Hell, & Afterlife
When we die, do we go immediately to Heaven or stay asleep until Jesus returns?
Luke 23:43 | Ephesians 4:7-10
There is no waiting period in the grave; when we pass, we go to Jesus because His sacrifice conquered death so we might continue into the next life.
Is Hell a "physical place"?
Revelations 20:14-15
Yes, Hell is a physical place that was meant for Satan and his followers, but not for humans.
Will we be married in Heaven?
Matthew 22:30
There will be no marriage covenant in heaven because earthly marriage is a picture of the relationship between Jesus and the church.
Will we know our loved ones in Heaven?
Matthew 17:1-3
When meeting others in the afterlife, we will recognize people as cited in the Bible.
Do our loved ones who have passed away return as angels?
Hebrews 1:14 | Leviticus 19:31
Despite the common belief that loved ones return as angels, this is unbiblical. It is Holy Spirit who provides guidance.
How do we know that we will get to Heaven?
1 John 5:13
All who are saved will go to heaven, and the proof is in God’s forgiveness and love as well as how He changes our lives.
Does a Christian go to Hell if they commit suicide?
Romans 8:38-39
Suicide is a sin and tragedy, but it doesn’t automatically condemn a believer to hell.
Is our death circumstantial? Does God appoint us to die with sickness or accidents?
2 Corinthians 4:17-18
Because of sin and free will, accidents and disease exist. But these aren’t orchestrated by God; He uses them for His greater plan. The importance isn’t how you die but what comes after.
If someone leads a good life but doesn’t believe in God, are they going to Hell?
Ecclesiastes 7:20 | 1 John 1:9
In God’s eyes, all people are flawed. That’s why He sent Jesus to save us with His perfection. The only path to heaven is Christ.
Marriage & Family
What's a woman to do when her husband keeps getting caught messaging girls?
Mark 10:8-9
In this scenario, the wife should end the relationship because the husband has broken the marriage covenant.
In marriage, should we have separate bank accounts?
Genesis 2:24
Drawing on the principle that two become one in marriage, uniting finances is suggested so bills and resources become “ours.”
Should your spouse be responsible for your happiness or emotions?
Psalm 144:15
A spouse should not be responsible for your happiness or emotions; chasing feelings is dangerous and makes you vulnerable.
If my husband and I are not on the same level with our faith, what can I do?
1 Peter 3:1
A faith-filled lifestyle and gentle spirit are more effective than quoting scripture. Accept your husband’s authority and trust God to change his heart.
How can my boyfriend and I prepare for a Godly marriage?
2 Corinthians 6:14
When looking for a godly marriage, seek someone who shares your faith and who talks about God and the Bible. Build trust through boundaries and allow grace within the relationship.
I had an affair with a married person while single. Will God repay me for that?
Psalm 103:10
Fear of divine retribution for past mistakes is a big deal, but God doesn’t repay us according to our iniquities once we repent.
What does the Bible say about blended families?
Galatians 5:22-23
Similar to a traditional family, blended families must have order within the parental structure, shouldn’t pit the kids against other parents, and must work together to overcome challenges.
What does the Bible say about loving your parents correctly?
Exodus 20:12
Honoring parents is holding them in high esteem. This is an attitude of the heart and lays the groundwork for showing honor broadly.
How do we deal with family members when they’re hurting us (not physically)?
Proverbs 12, 20, 22
There are three crucial steps for dealing with difficult family members: checking yourself for where you contribute to the problem, fight for unity & healing, and separate from the dysfunction if necessary.
Are you supposed to put your spouse before your children?
Genesis 2 | Ephesians 5
Your spouse comes before your children because your marriage covenant is to your spouse.
Dating, Sexuality, & gender
Is same-sex marriage biblical?
Romans 1:26-28 | Jude 1:7
Same-sex marriage is not biblical because love and marriage are defined by God as a covenant between a man and a woman exclusively.
What does the Bible say about sex before marriage?
1 Corinthians 6:18
Any sex before marriage is considered fornication and is a sin. Intimacy forms a bond and commitment between two people that remains after the act.
What does dating as a Christian look like? Is online dating alright?
Hebrews 12:2 | 2 Corinthians 6:14
In Christian dating, it’s important to live successfully single, set standards for partners based on faith and character, and establish strong boundaries regarding purity.
How am I supposed to not fall into sexual temptations?
Mark 7:20-23
Temptation isn’t a sin but acting upon that temptation is. To avoid giving in to such urges, rally a friend group who will keep you accountable and be intentional about what you consume visually and audibly.
I am gay. Am I not worthy to attend this church, love God, be loved by God, or go to Heaven?
2 Timothy 3:16-17
All sinners are welcome, but God calls us out of the identities we put on ourselves so we may obey and live up to His standard.
What does the Bible say about “gender equality”?
Genesis 1:27
Men and women have equal worth before God but distinct roles. True unity and equality are found in Christ Jesus, overcoming the division brought by sin.
How can we address the transgender topic in society?
Ephesians 4:15 | Psalm 139
Gender is a God-given design like ethnicity and is tied to God’s purpose. Believers must address this topic with love, humility, boldness, and truth.
Mental Health & Struggles
What does the Bible say about depression & suicide?
Psalms 42:5
God offers help through rest, connection, and future focus, emphasizing that hope in God is key to navigating these times.
How can I let go of anger & resentment?
Ephesians 4:32
Forgiveness is an ongoing process that is only possible with God’s help. Focus on Jesus, not the person who wronged you.
Why does God allow innocent children to suffer (abuse, cancer, etc.)?
Romans 5:12
God is not the author of evil; sin entered the world through free will. The influence of Satan combined with human choices continue the cycle of chaos and suffering.
Will God lead you to leave your family or have an affair?
1 Corinthians 14:33
God builds order; He will not lead you to create disorder by breaking your marriage covenant.
I just need to know if God has a problem with marijuana. Does it make me any less of a Christian for doing it?
1 Corinthians 6:12 | Psalm 139:23-24
Salvation is based on a relationship with Jesus. However, if you feel guilt for something, it may be the Holy Spirit guiding you toward God’s best for your life.
How do you biblically deal with grief?
1 Peter 5:7 | Psalm 30:5
Navigating grief can be difficult. The Bible details a process of sitting down, crying, mourning, praying, and moving forward.
CULTURE, MEDIA, & SPIRITUAL BOUNDARIES
Are tattoos a sin?
Romans 10:4
Instead of strict rules, believers are called to live by faith and be led by the Holy Spirit, making decisions based on whether they represent Christ well rather than just permissible.
What does the Bible say about enjoying horror & Halloween?
1 Thessalonians 5:22
Carefully consider the spirit behind horror and Halloween. You shouldn’t enjoy or invite evil influences into your lives.
Can we explore the paranormal?
Leviticus 20:6
Based on biblical text, Satan and demons are real beings aiming to derail lives through cultural paranormal practices.
What are your thoughts on drinking alcohol?
Proverbs 20:1, 4-5 | Leviticus 10:9
Despite traditional views, the Bible permits moderate alcohol consumption, but abuse is a sin. There is a higher standard for community leaders.
Is smoking marijuana or doing any form of psychedelics a sin?
Romans 12:1
Recreational intoxication is a sin because it alters the mind and opens one up to evil influences. This is different from medicinal usage.
What does the Bible say about playing the lottery and scratch-offs?
1 Timothy 6:9-10
Be wary of the pursuit of wealth through gambling, which is driven by a love of money that can lead to harmful consequences.
Why is watching pornography so bad?
1 Thessalonians 4:3
Watching pornography is rooted in lust, which objectifies individuals, damages the heart, and is offensive to God.
In today’s political climate, how do we make the right decisions as Christians?
Micah 6:8 | Acts 5:29
Christians should allow their faith to inform their political views, not the other way around. The Bible is the ultimate guide for life.
With Halloween, are we desensitizing our kids to darkness?
1 Corinthians 9:22
Participating in Halloween is a personal decision based on conviction. In the case of Free Life Chapel, we hold a fall event for the purpose of engaging culture to share Christ.
CHRISTIAN LIVING & SPIRITUAL GROWTH
How can I know God's purpose for my life?
Jeremiah 29:11
Purpose is determined from your identity as defined by God and your destiny within God’s will. These effect your daily decisions toward Christ and God’s greater plan.
How do I guide and show my child that Jesus is The Way?
Proverbs 22:6 | Joshua 24:15
When raising children, share your personal testimony, establish a biblical standard at home, walk in a godly lifestyle, and discuss culture from a biblical perspective.
Is racism a sin?
Acts 10:34-35
Racism is a sin because it violates the image of God, His command to love one’s neighbor, and the unifying salvation we find in Jesus Christ.
Are weapons okay for Christians?
Exodus 22:2
Christians can have weapons, but they shouldn’t be looking to create chaos. Human lives are sacred to God, so ending one can’t be taken lightly.
How do you tithe when you're not working, but own a business?
Deuteronomy 14:22
The purpose behind tithing is connecting your heart to God’s through a covenant related to resources.
How do we address people that are members of the LGBTQ who attend church?
Romans 15:7 | James 2:8
Jesus was known as a “friend of sinners,” connecting with people before correcting them. We are to follow His example, welcoming and loving all while Jesus transforms their life.
Does the Bible say anything about cremation?
Burial and cremation are personal choices; both are seen in the Bible, but neither is favored or ridiculed.
How do you get free from lust and porn addiction — and stay free?
Romans 12:2
Getting free from addiction and staying free requires repentance, discipline, and accountability.
